A little easier now…
Pimpin’ ain’t easy, but you wouldn’t guess that if you looked online lately. Tips galore are online about “attracting a mate” coupled with tons f twitter threads giving tips.They all crack me up. This morning I turned on the computer and saw some “gentleman tips” on Facebook and Twitter that this one dude kept posting. Some cracked me up and others were actually damn good. Here are a couple of them:
If you buy a woman a drink, check to see if her lady friends want on also. If you can’t afford one, then maybe you need not to be at the club.
If you want offer a woman a drink, offer a glass of wine. You can’t go wrong with it.
Every man needs to own at least 3 to 4 suits.
A Razor lining is a must when getting your haircut. (does not apply for all people)
After your shower, put on baby oil then cologne. The baby oil and cologne will combine & the cologne will last longer.
During the summertime, there is nothing wrong with getting a facial. No woman likes a sweaty, greasing, oily face.
Have confidence in whatever u have on. If its a three piece suit to a sweatsuit, Have Confidence! Women love confidence!
Base your choice of cologne on what a woman would like, not what u would like.
Now most of these are some good tips, but I would say that the best tip would be to always be yourself. No matter what tips or strategies that you try to devise, you want someone to be attracted to you and not some persona that you made up. There was a time in my life that I was really timid, but it was because I was afraid to showcase my personality. I was afraid of being rejected and embarrassed. But when I finally got comfortable with the person that I was, I noticed that people accepted me. I didn’t have to try. People are drawn to people that believe in themselves. No matter if they are funny, silly, quiet, loud, nerdy, geeky or whatever.
I didn’t try to match up myself to attract others. I just was myself. There is no feeling worse than the feeling of someone liking you because of a false persona. Well maybe there is, but it still isn’t fun to have that floating in your head. If you get someone that is attracted to you because of your personality (and hopefully looks) it is almost game over. You don’t have to worry about being perfect or trying to go out of your way to impress someone. I’ll joke around with manlaws or tips, but the ones that I usually agree with are the ones that fit my lifestyle. If they don’t fit yours… then don’t do it. If you no likey, then don’t do it!
There is nothing like a person that is comfortable with themselves. You don’t have to dress a certain way or wear some fancy smell goods. It might not hurt, but make up your own rules that fit you. I can’t guarantee that you will be pimp of the year, but really pimpin’ ain’t easy but I also wouldn’t suggest that lifestyle choice either.
